Best Dating Discord Servers (2026)

A live, data-ranked index of 227 dating Discord servers, scored on size, activity, growth, Discord trust badges and category fit. We track servers via the Discord API every ~15 minutes; we don't rank on payment.

As of 8 Oct 2026, the top-ranked dating Discord servers are SmU5h (71.2), Cute Emotes Emojis | E-Girl... (69.5) and Lockdown COD League (69.0), scored out of 100.

Discover the best dating Discord servers featuring active voice chat mixers, verified member bases, and welcoming communities built for genuine connections. Our curated list includes social servers for adults looking to meet new people, build friendships, and explore relationships in a low-pressure online setting.

Dating Discord servers connect you with people through icebreaker games, voice hangouts, speed-dating events, and interest-based channels rather than swipe-based matching. Whether you want casual conversation, friendship-first connections, or to find a longer-term partner, these communities offer organic ways to meet people and get to know them before pursuing one-on-one chats.

Our rankings evaluate dating servers on member count, moderation quality, verification practices, and community trust signals so you can find safe, welcoming communities with active members.

This list is a metrics-based ranking of community health

It is not an endorsement — we rank community health, not content quality

Ranked index

227 ranked · sorted by composite score · how scoring works

SmU5hCommunity

This is a place where casual, and competitive minds alike can discuss the game Super Smash. Bros. Ultimate.

Members

7.6K

2K online

71.2+0.2%7d

Size×2.0

6.5/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.2/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #1 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 7.6K members; growing 0.2% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Cute Emotes Emojis | E-Girl...Community

E-girl and e-boy hangout with custom Milk and Mocha bear emotes and a relaxed social space for that aesthetic.

Members

2.2K

603 online

69.5+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

5.6/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #2 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 2.2K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Lockdown COD LeagueCommunity

Draft CoD League for Bo7 and BANGER PRIZEPOOL 8s!!! https://discord.gg/lockdown

Members

3.3K

1.3K online

69.0+0.1%7d

Size×2.0

5.9/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.1/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #3 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 3.3K members; growing 0.1% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

.ᐟ.ᐟ The Shifters Café ☕Community

☕ - feat. reality shifting, law of assumption / manifestation, witchcraft & spirituality, + an active community, this is the space for you!!

Members

4.5K

676 online

68.9+1.4%7d

Size×2.0

6.1/10

Activity×1.0

7.5/10

Growth×1.5

6.4/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #4 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 4.5K members; growing 1.4% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

/e-date 🍑 • ♡ nitro ♡ dati...Community

Dating and hangout server where members meet, chat, and build connections at their own pace. Memes, deeper conversations, and regular Nitro giveaways.

Members

2.4K

33 online

67.7-0.1%7d

Size×2.0

5.6/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

4.9/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #5 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 2.4K members; shrinking 0.1% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Lana's Pookies 🤍Community

Dating and social space for adults into egirl and eboy culture, aesthetics, and creator personalities.

Members

957

12 online

67.7+0.1%7d

Size×2.0

5.0/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.1/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #6 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 957 members; growing 0.1% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

THRONECommunity

Welcome to official THRONE Discord.

Members

1.3K

13 online

66.6+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

5.2/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #7 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 1.3K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

✩.・*:。Chatting Universe .•*...Community

Dating and social hangout with voice channels, text chat, and movies/TV discussion. Level up to unlock media sharing in chat.

Members

1.5K

11 online

66.5-0.1%7d

Size×2.0

5.3/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

4.9/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #8 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 1.5K members; shrinking 0.1% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

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Dating HungaryCommunity

Ismerkedj, barátkozz, beszélgess és találj új embereket! 💕 Egy magyar közösség, ahol mindig akad valaki, akivel egy hullámhosszon lehetsz.

Members

6.9K

1K online

66.3+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

6.4/10

Activity×1.0

7.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #9 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 6.9K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

The Streamer Hub | Twitch...Community

The Streamer Hub, the ultimate Discord server for streamers looking to expand their horizons, forge new connections.

Members

4.1K

666 online

65.9+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

6.0/10

Activity×1.0

8.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #10 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 4.1K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

100+ E-Girl Emojis | Aesthe...Community

E-girl aesthetic emojis and custom emotes. Browse the collection, use them across Discord, and submit your own designs.

Members

286 online

65.0+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

5.5/10

Activity×1.0

7.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #11 with cat fit as its strongest component (9.5/10) on 2K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

🖤🦇 Harley's Demons 🦇🖤

18+ NSFW server for adult content and sex work. Age verification required to enter.

Members

980

13 online

65.0+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

5.0/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #12 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 980 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Mika Paradise | VC • Social...

E-girl and e-boy social server with voice channels, text chat, photo sharing, and giveaways. Meet people who share the aesthetic and vibe.

Members

1.1M

0 online

65.0+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

10.0/10

Activity×1.0

0.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #13 with size as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 1.1M members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

True Fuck

US-based dating server for adults 18+ seeking partners or hookups. Free to join, moderated for safety, no payment required.

Members

1.3K

11 online

64.9+0.4%7d

Size×2.0

5.2/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.4/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #14 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 1.3K members; growing 0.4% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Servus DeiPartnered

Servus Dei is focused on one simple goal: Help people come closer to God. We are open to Catholics and Non Catholics.

Members

11.4K

1.2K online

64.6+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

6.8/10

Activity×1.0

5.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

8.5/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #15 with trust as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 11.4K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

bunni gateway θρ

Dating and friendship server where members chat about shared interests before connecting romantically or as friends.

Members

1.5K

19 online

64.4+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

5.3/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #16 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 1.5K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Desi hookups

Dating server for South Asian adults 18+ looking to meet and connect within their cultural community.

Members

1.6K

12 online

64.2-0.1%7d

Size×2.0

5.3/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

4.9/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #17 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 1.6K members; shrinking 0.1% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Dismatch | get match・find f...Community

Make new friends in one click via our unique matchmaking system.

Members

21K

1.8K online

64.0+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

7.2/10

Activity×1.0

4.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #18 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 21K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Femb❁y SweetH❀telCommunity

welcome to the femboy sweet hotel!

Members

130

25 online

63.9+1.5%7d

Size×2.0

3.5/10

Activity×1.0

9.5/10

Growth×1.5

6.5/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #19 with activity as its strongest component (9.5/10) on 130 members; growing 1.5% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

DAWA LANDCommunity

EVERYTHING IS CRAZY HERE ! U want to meet a french and english community come here ! We love dark humor, joking and having fun together !

Members

178

35 online

63.3+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

3.8/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #20 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 178 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Pennsylvania Gay DatingCommunity

Pennsylvania LGBTQ+ dating and social server for people across the state looking to meet and connect.

Members

721

8 online

63.3-0.7%7d

Size×2.0

4.8/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

4.3/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #21 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 721 members; shrinking 0.7% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Love Bloom 🌸Community

Dating server where members post introductions and message people who interest them. No algorithms, no bots, you choose who to talk to.

Members

383 online

62.6+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

5.8/10

Activity×1.0

6.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #22 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 3K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

♡ Vera’s Playroom | E-Girls...

Dating and hangout server where members share photos, chat about interests, and connect one-on-one. Casual vibe, low pressure, real conversations.

Members

651

9 online

62.3+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

4.7/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #23 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 651 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Muzzy Mind ProductionsCommunity

Creating audio dramas and more. Voice actors, artists, writers, podcasters, etc. A community of creatives to relate to and hire!

Members

617

116 online

62.2-0.6%7d

Size×2.0

4.7/10

Activity×1.0

9.5/10

Growth×1.5

4.4/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #24 with activity as its strongest component (9.5/10) on 617 members; shrinking 0.6% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Cuco Fans/ CUCO tag /YrYVWAQ3pwCommunity

Cuco server ! Game nights giveaways and more. Cuco Tag. Code YrYVWAQ3pw

Members

195

43 online

61.9+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

3.8/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #25 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 195 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

MEGALO MANIACommunity

Place for Intellectuals, NPD/egomaniacs and the disordered alike. Regular Chaos with moments of Peace and Discussion

Members

3.1K

344 online

61.8+0.3%7d

Size×2.0

5.8/10

Activity×1.0

5.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.3/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #26 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 3.1K members; growing 0.3% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Love Bombing -`ღ ́-Community

Adults-only dating server where members meet and connect with each other. 18 and up.

Members

150 online

61.7+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

5.0/10

Activity×1.0

7.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #27 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 1K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

The Server NetworkCommunity

A place for Discord Admin & Mods to network - find server partners, expert mods, services or the perfect server to join!

Members

160

34 online

61.4+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

3.7/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #28 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 160 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

🎓 R2X UniversityCommunity

The🥇 rap discord for underground rap & music. Connect, collab, and share your music!

Members

6.2K

567 online

61.1+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

6.3/10

Activity×1.0

4.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #29 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 6.2K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

thotties inc. ⟢ social ⟢ ...Community

18+ e-girl hangout for selfies, photos, and socializing. NSFW-friendly with role rewards and giveaways.

Members

446

70 online

61.1-0.4%7d

Size×2.0

4.4/10

Activity×1.0

8.0/10

Growth×1.5

4.6/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #30 with cat fit as its strongest component (9.5/10) on 446 members; shrinking 0.4% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

/hellgenCommunity

/hellgen join up for a cool community without excessive abuse but a mix of everything

Members

129

26 online

60.9+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

3.5/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #31 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 129 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

💌Lovesick Paradise💌Community

Yandere dating and roleplay community for members 13+. Matchmaking channels, character roles, and hangout spaces to connect with others interested in that dynamic.

Members

750

75 online

60.8+1.6%7d

Size×2.0

4.8/10

Activity×1.0

5.0/10

Growth×1.5

6.6/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #32 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 750 members; growing 1.6% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

YandereLoveCommunity

ᴡᴇʟᴄᴏᴍᴇ ᴛᴏ ʏᴀɴᴅᴇʀᴇʟᴏᴠᴇ! ʜᴇʀᴇ, ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ꜰɪɴᴅ ꜰʀɪᴇɴᴅꜱ, ʟᴏᴠᴇ, ᴏʀ ᴀ ꜰᴀᴍɪʟʏ ᴛᴏ ᴄᴀʟʟ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴏᴡɴ. ʟᴇᴛ’ꜱ ɢʀᴏᴡ ᴛᴏɢᴇᴛʜᴇʀ! 💕

Members

1.3K

165 online

60.6+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

5.2/10

Activity×1.0

6.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #33 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 1.3K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

ChristCoreCommunity

A Christ-centered community ✞✨------・Weekly Bible studies 📖・Events 🌠 A welcoming place to grow in faith and community. ꧕

Members

2.2K

259 online

60.3-0.3%7d

Size×2.0

5.6/10

Activity×1.0

6.0/10

Growth×1.5

4.7/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #34 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 2.2K members; shrinking 0.3% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

11Community

Dating server where members chat and meet through actual conversation. Open to relationships, casual dating, or expanding your social circle.

Members

17.2K

794 online

60.2+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

7.1/10

Activity×1.0

2.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #35 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 17.2K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

ZoxtopiaCommunity

This discord server is for the owner's (zoxicko) webcomics they create! This server is for artist and writers!

Members

189

34 online

60.2+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

3.8/10

Activity×1.0

9.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #36 with activity as its strongest component (9.0/10) on 189 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Algerien femboys

Algerien gays lesbians evetyone is welcome

Members

209

26 online

60.1+2.9%7d

Size×2.0

3.9/10

Activity×1.0

6.0/10

Growth×1.5

7.9/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #37 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 209 members; growing 2.9% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Date me!!

Dating server for women seeking women. Femcel-oriented space focused on nerdy interests and unconventional personalities.

Members

250

2 online

60.0+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

4.0/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #38 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 250 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

𐔌　𓈒 ݁　 goobtopia 　 . . ୨୧Community

✿ ᴗ ᴗ) :　join for [ .𖥔 ] tag　┈　16+　.　sfw　ꕀ　NO edating/egirls/eboys　 !!!

Members

244

46 online

59.1+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

4.0/10

Activity×1.0

9.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

7.0/10

Ranks #39 with activity as its strongest component (9.5/10) on 244 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Cozy Galóre

Ytt!!

Members

163

44 online

59.0+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

3.7/10

Activity×1.0

10.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #40 with activity as its strongest component (10.0/10) on 163 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

❝┊ 𖤐 ♥ Crimson Hearts ♥ 𖤐 ...Community

⛧ ︰𓂃˚⊹ Traumagenic focused system server (singlets and IRLS are welcome too!), with no endos! (14 - 23) ❒⊹ꔛﾟ﹕ʚ System dating, sourcemate, and friend finding applications! ⛧ ︰𓂃˚⊹ Fair rules and staff! ❒⊹ꔛﾟ﹕ʚ Agere and Petre channels

Members

162

25 online

58.8+0.6%7d

Size×2.0

3.7/10

Activity×1.0

7.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.6/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #41 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 162 members; growing 0.6% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

DuDuLabCommunity

Guys! This is DUDU! 🐻 DuDulab here have helped me establish a channel to communicate with you in different worlds！

Members

47.3K

75 online

58.5+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

7.8/10

Activity×1.0

0.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #42 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 47.3K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

E-Girl Seduction | Social...

E-girl and e-boy dating and social server. Voice channels, chat spaces, giveaways, custom emotes, and role assignment for connecting with others in the community.

Members

67.4K

0 online

58.5+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

8.0/10

Activity×1.0

0.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #43 with cat fit as its strongest component (9.5/10) on 67.4K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

🦇The Alt Cave✨Community

Friendly and inviting Community of all sorts of Alternative people, let it be Goth, Emo, Scene, Punk or anything alike! Everyone is welcome here!(PS: If no one is texting at the moment, it's most likely the members are asleep or have better stuff to do. It's an active community!)

Members

534

52 online

58.1+0.2%7d

Size×2.0

4.5/10

Activity×1.0

5.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.2/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

9.5/10

Ranks #44 with cat fit as its strongest component (9.5/10) on 534 members; growing 0.2% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Lets Talk Part 3 Five GuysCommunity

We are a good server with good people and js want people who will actually talk to each other wont be dry all the time. You guys can lowkey do whatever, talk to owner talk to mods do whatever you like.

Members

144

23 online

57.8+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

3.6/10

Activity×1.0

8.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #45 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 144 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

RED ROOM / Chillchat.Dating...

SFW dating and social server with anonymous text chat, confessions, and voice hangouts for meeting people worldwide.

Members

102K

0 online

57.8+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

8.3/10

Activity×1.0

0.0/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

4.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #46 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 102K members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

Dating Discord DeutschCommunity

German-language server for singles and people seeking friendships or romantic connections through introductions and interest-based chat.

Members

722

79 online

57.6+0.0%7d

Size×2.0

4.8/10

Activity×1.0

5.5/10

Growth×1.5

5.0/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #47 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 722 members; growth is flat this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

𓆩GuildHaven𓆪⁀➷ 9500+ GUILD TAGS 🥀 edgy ⸝⸝ dark ⸝⸝ social ⸝⸝ icons ⸝⸝ egirls ༊·˚Community

❥・egirls, dark, vibes. We have VCs, hangout, giveaways, events. need some edgy e-tags? we've got them all here.

Members

501

66 online

57.3-0.4%7d

Size×2.0

4.5/10

Activity×1.0

6.5/10

Growth×1.5

4.6/10

Trust×0.5

7.0/10

Cat fit×1.0

8.5/10

Ranks #48 with cat fit as its strongest component (8.5/10) on 501 members; shrinking 0.4% this week. Data from the Discord API, refreshed every ~15 minutes.

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