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🦺「OnlyMen

Rank #50 in Discord DatingFounded Oct 2023

🦺「OnlyMen

Community
169members23online · 14%

Transmedicalist/truscum teenage boys cave. Only Gen Z (2003-2010). We're a bunch of shitposters sitting at 50 members.

Bots / AutomationDatingCommunity

Composite score

59.5/100
ranked among dating+1.2% 7d

About

Looking for a space where you can just be yourself without judgment? This is a laid-back community built specifically for teenage trans and cis men who want genuine connection and real conversation. We understand that finding servers tailored to transmedicalist perspectives and Gen Z experiences can be tough, so we created something different.

What makes this place special is the vibe. We're not here to police every message or make you feel watched—we keep moderation chill while maintaining a space where everyone feels welcome and respected. Our community has grown to over 150 members who are authentically themselves, whether that's through shitposting, deep conversations, or just hanging out. The founders are two guys in a beautiful relationship who genuinely care about fostering an inclusive environment, and they're backed by some solid automation to keep things running smoothly.

Whether you're looking to make friends who actually get what you're going through, explore dating connections with people your age, or simply find your people, this server delivers. We're all about real conversations and real friendships in a space designed by and for Gen Z guys who want authenticity over everything else. No performative inclusivity, no walking on eggshells—just a supportive crew that accepts you for who you are.

If you're a teenage guy seeking genuine community and meaningful connections, come hang with us. We're waiting for you to join the conversation.

Quick stats

Members169
Online now23
7d growth+2
24h growth+0
Tracked sinceMar 2026
Snapshots27
Server age2 years old

Trust signals

  • Community-enabled
  • No safety flags

Member trend

Peak 169 on Jun 19, 2026 · Now 169 · +3% over the tracked period · Tracked since Mar 29, 2026

since we started tracking

Established

Established October 2023 · 2 years on Discord

Server capabilities

Community serverAutoMod enabledSoundboardAnnouncement channels

Score inputs · v3.2 · 5 components

What goes into the 59.5

×2.0
Size37/100

How big it is — measured fairly so smaller servers still count

×1.0
Activity70/100

How alive the chat is — people online, messages flowing

×1.5
Growth62/100

Whether it's picking up steam this week

×0.5
Trust70/100

Verified, Partnered or Community-flagged by Discord

×1.0
Category fit85/100

How squarely it fits the niche it sits in

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