Rank #1 in Discord OtherFounded Apr 2021
United States of Virgins
A judgment-free space for people exploring relationships, sexuality, and identity. Members discuss personal values, seek friendships, and support each other's choices without pressure.
Composite score
50.4/100About
United States of Virgins is a community for people thinking through questions about relationships, sexuality, and personal choices. The server welcomes anyone exploring these topics on their own terms—whether that means abstinence, delayed relationships, or simply figuring out what matters to you.
Conversations here run deeper than surface small talk. Members discuss personal values, life goals, social dynamics, and how to navigate these things with people who won't judge your choices or push you toward anyone else's expectations. The pitch is straightforward: a space where you can be honest about where you're at without pressure to conform or explain yourself.
If you're looking for real friendships with people who get it, or just a place to think through these questions without judgment, that's what this server is built for.
Member growth
+0% over the tracked period
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What goes into the 50.4
How big it is — measured fairly so smaller servers still count
How alive the chat is — people online, messages flowing
Whether it's picking up steam this week
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How squarely it fits the niche it sits in
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