Rank #164 in Discord Dating
Date me!!
Composite score
45.0/100Members
253
Online now
6 · 2%
7d growth
+3
Server age
1 year old
Last synced
Oct 19, 2026
Editorial summary
This is a dating server for women looking to meet other women, with a specific focus on femcel culture and shared nerdy interests. The server is designed as a space where women can be upfront about who they are and what they're looking for without pretense. Members post their bios and preferences, then connect with others who match their vibe. It's geared toward people who identify as nerdy, unconventional, or outside mainstream dating norms and want to find partners with similar sensibilities.
Score breakdown · methodology v3.2
MethodologyWhat goes into the 45.0
How big it is, measured fairly so smaller servers still count
How alive the chat is: people online, messages flowing
Whether it's picking up steam this week
Verified, Partnered or Community-flagged by Discord
How squarely it fits the niche it sits in
Activity evidence · 22-day trend
Members and online, last 90 days
Date me!! had 253 members at the latest snapshot on Oct 16, 2026, up 8 (3.3%) over 30 days. Peak of 253 members on Oct 16, 2026. Snapshots on record from Jul 28, 2026.
24h change
0 (0.0%)
7d change
+3 (+1.2%)
30d change
+8 (+3.3%)
Online now
6
Members
253
Peak members
253
History from
Jul 28, 2026
Snapshots (90d)
23
One point per day from our Discord API snapshots. Window changes compare the latest snapshot with the nearest one at least 20 hours, 6 days or 26 days older.
Where this server ranks.
Date me!! appears in 1 ranked list on Discord Rankings.
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Questions about Date me!!.
Is Date me!! a good Discord server?
Date me!! ranks #164 of 227 Dating servers on Discord Rankings, with a fair composite score of 45.0/100. That score blends its size, live activity, recent growth, Discord trust flags and how squarely it fits the Dating niche.
How many members does Date me!! have?
Date me!! has 253 members, with around 6 online at the last sync.
How active is Date me!!?
Based on our latest snapshot, about 6 members are online right now (2% of the server), and membership grew by 3 over the past 7 days.
When was Date me!! created?
Date me!! was created in November 2024 — 1 year on Discord.
How does Discord Rankings score Date me!!?
Every server earns a 0–100 composite (methodology v3.2) from five weighted components — size, activity, growth, trust and category fit — and we refresh the underlying data on a roughly 15 min sync cadence. Rankings are independent of advertising.
Data provenance
Last synced
Oct 19, 2026
Scoring version
v3.2
Update cadence
~15 min sync
Established
November 2024
Rankings are computed independently of advertising and are not endorsed by Discord Inc. Based on 23 snapshots from the last 90 days.